Netflix and Chill (by myself)


#Worstdatingblogever! I haven’t been on one date yet. I think I’m texting with a new guy, but I’m not so sure. I get more texts from Seamless.

Should I just forget it all and finally get a cat? I was walking in my neighborhood last night and a cute little kitten was almost mine! Right outside a bodega was this little kitty and just when I had thoughts of scooping him up, this guy who was next to him beat me to it. I guess it was his kitten? Bodega kitten?

Oh well…maybe it’s a sign that I don’t have to go down that path just yet. Not that there’s anything wrong with having a cat when you’re a single woman in your late thirties. One day I will confidently get one and it won’t mean a thing besides having a sweet, perfect kitty to love. Who needs a man!? Kidding. I prefer dogs anyways.

Let me just say that I am glad I’m not on a Netflix and chill 3rd date right now. I respect tv too much to use it as some ruse for some lurid ulterior motive. If a guy ever used Game of Thrones as a cover to get laid, I’d punch him in the face and get out of there. I can’t imagine anyone being that low though. GOT is a great show.

I still need to try out my idea of going out to places alone to see if I can meet someone the old fashioned way, in person. The idea is that if I’m on my own, I’ll be more approachable. I think I will go to a museum tomorrow. We shall see!

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  1. June 20, 2017 / 5:12 pm

    I lol’d a few times throughout this post.
    At least you are thinking positive about your situation.
    I really want to meet someone the old fashioned way, too. I’m open to the idea of online dating but it still scares me. How do we know if the guys online are serious or not??
    Ugh, shots for two (me and you), please.
    Nice blog!

    • June 21, 2017 / 2:20 am

      Ahhhh! You’re my first comment! This is special. 😉
      I hear you! However, how do we ever know if a guy is serious? It’s so hard! With online dating you can filter out a lot of guys to try to find the more serious ones. A lot of them will try to ask you to their place without having ever met up in person. So I filter out those guys! Or all the guys who just message “hi” I ignore that too although that’s become more common because of dating apps. I like a guy who I know has read my profile because they refer to it in their message to me. That’s one way to know the guy might be genuine. Luckily, most the guys I’ve met from online dating have been nice (am I remembering correctly?) but for whatever reason it just wasn’t the right guy.

      I still haven’t gone to the museum. Haha! I will!

      Thanks for your comment! I will definitely be checking out your blog soon.

      • June 21, 2017 / 2:33 am

        Awh I am so happy it’s special for you! 😄 Are you new to blogging? I am. Kind of. Been up for a little over a week. I’m lovin’ yet!
        You have a good point about online dating. I actually just wrote a blog about it. I agree, when a guy proves he is interested it’s much more admirable. Simply noticing a little detail on my profile could earn ya a date! Lol.
        I look forward to blogging with you🙂

        • June 21, 2017 / 11:31 am

          I am new to blogging! About a month old now I think.
          I can’t wait to read yours! I will soon. If only I didn’t have to get to work. :/
          Looking forward to blogging with you too! 😊

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